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Friday, December 10, 2010

cinta -----> ikhlas

assalammuaaikum...


right now,
sy dah ado kat semban :-)


semua org balik.
so sy follow balik...
tp bgus gak.leh teman mak gi kenduri kawen jiran esok.
di Jelai nun :-)



ok.
back to the topic.
its about love.


hey..
falling in love is great right???

I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.
( sy amik quote nie frpm google )


untuk sy.
love to terlalu besar maksudnya.
so the definition will depends on situation.
and interpretation will be also dif for diff people.



since few years back,
bila ckp psl love je..
or falling in love je..
so slalu ingtkan diri supaya ikhlas!!!!



menyintai dan dicintai dgn ikhlas :-)


now,
somthing happen to my cloze fren.
her bf looks like "hilang arah or pedoman" after break.


i told him...

"kalu ko betul ikhlas sygkan dia..plez let her go..both of u, need more tyme and more space..rilex first...jgn tak tentu arah mcm nie"

he keep saying..
dia bersalah.
dia menyesal.
dia yg bodoh.
dia yg hina.
dia lah punca.
and dia lah everything.


but.
for what guys??

benda dh jadik.
kenapa bru skang nk ngis.
baru skang nk hargai,
baru skang nk nmpk kan mata sendiri.
and baru skang nk rase how she love u before!!!!

its too late :-(


kalu kamu tanya sy.
apa yg sy rase.
apa yg sy lihat.


jawapan nya.

sy sedih :-(
sbb i know both of them.
and jujurnya sy jg sayangkan relationship dorng yang hampir menjangkau 2 and 1/2 years.


but when u talking about killing your self.
hidup huru hara.
hidup tak tentu arah.
kamu mmg mencari nahas!


my dear,
love is not everything.

bagi sy.
kalu betul kita sygkan sesorang dgn ikhlas nya..
kita akan lepaskan dia demi kebahgian dia.
walaupun kebahgian dia ialah bersama dgn org lain!
its hard.but trust me.
itu adalah lebih baik dan lebih puas.



selain ikhlas.
redha is another konsep yg boleh di apply!!


kena redha dgn setiap kententuan ALLAH.
it must be a reason knp ALLAH aturkan begini.
maybe.Dia ada someone yg much2 better than what u hv now.
who knows right?



If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be.


so..
plez and plez
jangan terlalu obese dgn cinta dan manusia yg dicintai.
sedarlah smuanya pinjaman belaka.
bak kata mam td,
kita nie pun pinjaman..
bila ALLAH nk amik pun kita tak tahu.



yes.
kamu berhak tuk bercinta.
tp bia memadai.
jgn mati sbb cinta sesama manusia.
jangan kan syurga.bau syurga pun belum tentu tau....



always remind our self.
when you love sombody.
get ready to love him as much as u can.
and plez be ready to let him/ her go as ikhlas as u can....


thats y dulu lagi sy dh igtkan diri.

love is not only taking a risk to love sombdy.
but its also taking a risk to hurt yourself....


becareful :-)


nota : sentiasa ingt dan beringat.jodoh pertemuan ajal dan maut smua di tangan ALLAH.Dia lebih tahu yg terbaik utk kita.

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